Some things about me, OF edition: • I can’t do fantasy. I..
Added 2023-05-19 11:48:34 +0000 UTCSome things about me, OF edition: • I can’t do fantasy. I have aphantasia so I don’t fantasize. No mental pictures. This is something I learned about myself a year ago. It’s helped me understand some of my self criticism of not being “a good top”. It’s hard for me to plan a scene. • I never masturbated intentionally til my mid 20s. As a k i d I’d wake up from a dream, grinding a pillow. It felt good but I never consciously pursued it. My ex husband didn’t want me masturbating as he thought it was desire I should save for him, as I also didn’t want sex much. When we divorced I started a masturbation practice that made partnered sex so much better for me. That was when I knew I wanted to do hands-on sex education. Thank you, Betty Dodson. Google her. • I love getting to know clients via a cuddle session! I learn so much about them which helps me connect with them authentically. No matter how we end up working together, that cuddle session is always required if there is to be any mutuality. Probably the strangest business plan ever but it works for me. Stay tuned for more… Photo for tax.
