Post 1 of 3 I am not for everyone. I have learned that over the years. Some guys just can’t take me for who I am. I say things that maybe at first they find “cute” or maybe funny. But then they find out that is who I am, and that is a bit too much for them. Sometimes they find out right away and run. Others take a while. About a month ago, I was blowing this guy in his car that I just met. I may have written about it. It was Truck Week, or something like that. He didn’t last long, and that was OK, I didn’t expect him to and I was getting my thrill just by sucking his cock in a parking lot. I looked up him and as I rolled his balls around in my hand, I told him, “I want you to empty your balls into my mouth so I can drink your sperm, I want to feel it in my belly.” Word for word. And he did exactly that. I got my belly full of jizz swimmers, all was well. I went home content, masturbated thinking about feeling his cum leave his balls and hitting my tongue, the taste of it, the way it felt sliding down my throat. It was a good night. I gave him my number, told him to text me if he felt like it. He didn’t, I forgot about him anyway, and the matter was closed. One of his friends, several of whom watched us, found me on Twitter and wrote to me. I casually asked what happened to his friend, said I never heard from him again. He said I freaked him out. That I was more into sex than he was and thought what I told him was gross. He lied and said it was so gross he couldn’t cum. I had a belly full of live jizz that begs to differ. Now, this other guy repeated word for word what I told him, so I know he has been talking to him about our blowjob encounter. He also told him he couldn’t be with a girl that liked to do and say disgusting shit. Which I am OK with. I don’t find any of it disgusting, but I also know that other people feel differently about it. I think the problem really lies because what I said to him made him cum immediately, and he doesn’t want to admit that. It goes against something, maybe he feels it just to “dirty.” It is probably scary to some men that a woman is more sexual than he is. Which is nuts, you should just hang on and enjoy the ride. I have found over the years that a lot of men expect women to be subservient in the fuck department. I am the wrong girl for that. I will do for you, but you better believe you will do for me. If I don’t like the way you fuck me, I will let you know. Not to insult or hurt the feelings, but to better the enjoyment of my vagina. The worst thing I can think of is having someone not tell me what they like. I want to know and most times, even if it’s not my thing, I am happy to take part. There are things I just won’t do and for obvious reasons, but mostly I am open. Do you like to be fucked in the ass with a strap on? I don’t masturbate thinking about it, but as long as you prepare yourself properly, I’ll make you my bitch. I even try to work it into my fantasies. Using the strap on thing I’ll pretend you're my cuck and the only fucking your going to get is me fucking you. I never used to like to make guys eat their own cum, but this one guy was into it and I was into him. So I would say things related to eating his cum and then tell him to do just that after he jizzed. It started out not my thing but before I knew it, I was making guys eat their own cum while I masturbated watching them slurp it down. Then I graduated into making them eat other guys’ cum, which is still a mind blowing experience for me. I would race home, legs squeezed together, trying to keep all that sperm inside of me and make my man eat it out of me. Some of the most intense cums I have are when I’m getting cleaned up. So good that sometimes I don’t know where I’m at when I’m done. My point is that I am open to likes and dislikes. I am not however going to change my sexual preferences, which are subject to change at any given moment, just because someone doesn’t like them. If the blowjob guy didn’t like my verbal enticements, he could say so with zero blowback. If you like your balls licked, and she doesn’t because they are hairy smelly orbs, wash them, shave them, and let her know. She will lick your balls or you need another chick. Sometimes it backfires. A guy asked me what I liked. I was blowing him while he asked that, just so you know. I told him I like when he asks or tells me things about my boyfriend, which he knew I had one. “Do you suck your boyfriend like this?” “I don’t want your boyfriend to fuck your pussy again, it’s mine.” Those type of things. He wouldn’t do it. Too bad for him, it’s the all-access pass to my pussy. But I understand. I understand he isn’t into that and I am so on to finding someone else that is. Anyway, blowjob guy’s friend is infatuated that I say sperm. He said he can’t get past the way I say things out of his head. His exacts words “I can’t stop thinking about how you talk.” I guess I should have given him the blowjob instead. If I remember correctly, I was open to blowing all three or four of them but only the one stepped up to the cum draining plate.